Deeper Dive Series: How Can I Become Less Defensive & More Vulnerable - Part 2 with Stephen Schettini

In this episode, Dr. Judith and guest Stephen Schettini explore the transition from being defensive to becoming more vulnerable. Stephen, a former Buddhist monk with over 40 years of teaching mindfulness, shares insights into how learned behaviors shape defensiveness and how true vulnerability is a natural state. They discuss the importance of self-observation, breaking down the barriers created by ego, and the role of courage and stillness in achieving authenticity. The conversation also touches on the influence of emotions over thoughts, the necessity of support systems, and finding a balance between ego and genuine self-expression. Join them as they delve into these profound topics aimed at fostering personal growth and spiritual evolution.

About Our Guest

Stephen Schettini (pronounced skettini) is a former Buddhist monk and present-day mindfulness teacher focusing on the tension between cognitive and emotional intelligence. He is author of a memoir, The Novice: How I Became a Buddhist Monk, Why I Quit and What I Learned, and the guide to mindful reflection entitled, It Begins with Silence. Stephen lives outside Montreal with his wife, stepdaughter and two cats.

TEDx Talk: http://tinyurl.com/5yv94ddh

Article (A Sense of Belonging): https://t.ly/enbnE

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

01:50 Understanding Defensiveness and Vulnerability

03:10 The Role of Ego and Learned Behaviors

06:41 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity

09:45 The Spiritual Perspective on Vulnerability

13:12 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth

19:40 The Importance of Community and Support

31:44 Conclusion and Final Thoughts